It's Monday again so that can only mean one thing...its bliggity bloggity Blog Hop time! I'm SO excited to have the fabulous Taylor from
Totally Tay here today! She is beyond rad! I'm not even kidding, she's awesome...just the fact that she references 2 of my all time favorite movies in her post solidifies that fact for me. So go on and check her out, you can thank me later!
Well hello queso lovers!
I'm so very excited to be guest posting here for one of my favorite blog friends/fellow mustache lover.
Topic: Friends
Recently,
Mama Kat posted as one of her writing assignment prompts; 'Make a list of things you no longer have in common with your single/childless friends and why you love them anyway.' This prompt, as all of her prompts do, got me thinking. One of the greatest joys of my friendships in the last year has been watching my friends transition from besties to besties who are mommies.
And while they are still super important in my life, there are things that we will never have in common as long as I stay single and childless. I feel like this is a common issue in friendships at our age (The age where some people are living the married/kid life and some people are living the sitting at home and crying life wondering why no one loves her...er......them...... this is just a hypothetical juxtaposition, mind you) and one that does not need to keep people from enjoying their friendships to the fullest!
The above quote is one of my favorite friendship quotes of all time, and just because our friends with kids have a little bit (or a lot) of Raffi mixed into their song, doesn't mean that we can't still have some killer dance parties!
So, single ladies with awesome mommy friends, I am calling on you!!! Put DOWN that glass (bottle) of wine! Kick off those expensive shoes that would cover an entire month's tuition at your friend's kid's pre-school! Put DOWN the microwave popcorn you tell yourself is a nutritious dinner choice (it's corn, ok? corn=vegetable=healthy, right?) and go hang out with your mommy friends! Don't be afraid of their little buggers! They're actually pretty great and funny!
Here is a list of my top four Single Friend/Mommy Bestie activities. Enjoy.
**note- Mommie Bestie will be referred to as MB**
1) Pool time= Tans for everyone! Don't forget the sunscreen. Bonus for MB- kiddos become more comfortable in the water AND they go home exhausted after a day spent doing physical activity and being in the sun which means parents get a great night sleep. Bonus for you: lifting the kids in and out of the pool/throwing the kids in the water/playing with them will give you a killer arm workout.
2) Girlfriend Movie Nights with delicious Mocktails (for your pregnant and breastfeeding MB)! Bring some of your old school kid movie favorites. It's totally fun to relive some of the oldies-but-goodies and it's good to expose 'kids these days' to movies that don't require goofy 3-d glasses. Some movie suggestions from Tay's VHS Library are;
-The Boy Who Could Fly (if you know this movie, then you can be in my You are the Coolest Club. I was obsessed with this film. BTW, there is a facebook fan page. You're welcome.)
- 3 Ninjas! (Rocky Loves, Emily. Rocky Loves, Emily. Light up the EYES boys! We don't want to HURT you....we just want to KIDNAP YOU!!!) I'm done quoting now. For those of you who are scratching your heads right now, my apologies.
- The Labyrinth (because what kid doesn't like movies about child abduction and frightening underworld creatures set to a radical David Bowie soundtrack?)
3) Mall Time- Kids love malls. Some have play areas. Let your MB do some solo shopping while you wrangle her offspring in the play place! Be sure to bring plenty of hand sanitizer and snacks. MB will adore you for letting her get some serious retail therapy done without the kids bugging her for churros. Oh yeah, bring money for churros. They're joy in stick form for mall going tots.
4) Bake Cookies! Kids LIVE for baking. Here's the trick to this one; do it at your house so that MB isn't left with a huge mess to clean up at the end of the day. While the cookies are baking, throw on a movie (see suggestion 2), catch up with MB over some batter coated wooden spoons and send everyone home with some fresh baked yumminess.
Have fun!
Love ya, mean it.
Tay
***Big hugs to the wonderful Tay for an awesome post! And seriously people, take her up on this advice! I love when my single friends hang with me and the munchkins! And I love when they send me home with cookies too...mmmm...cookies...***